A fool I know. It is doomed, I just need some time to come to terms with it. #3 It’s a secret relationship. Also, it will send a warning to others about this person. I really am on the hook, dang and I just saw an episode on HIMYM and yeah, great day, LOL. But when I ask her- what if he calls? If you’re convinced the girl who’s messing with your mind and your heart isn’t just being friendly, and is actually trying to lead you on, read these 15 signs she’s leading you on. #7 She makes herself appear helpless. I’ll never know. Nut up and walk away but if you are strong enough to take what’s being handed to you then enjoy the ride but don’t let her take you to a place that leaves you an emotional wreck for life. That being said, I've also experienced what it's like to be the one who's led on, and I can honestly say it really f*cking sucks. 20 signs to recognize a people pleaser when you see one, How to tell a friend you love her without losing her. This is her. But that’s probably because she leads on most guys she dates and doesn’t like calling them her ex boyfriends. You appear interested in someone, but you don't move it along and you keep it vague. #6 She hasn’t been in too many relationships. She had come to love me as a very close friend, and me being in love with her made her feel very special. I will go into business with you. If they come calling, you can give it another shot and maybe they'll even change their ways. As some enraged women say here in Brazil, “homenzinho de merda” -“shitty little guy”. You’re confused and frustrated, annoyed and angry, and yet, you can’t leave her or walk away from her because she knows just what to say and do to dig her nails deeper into your heart. She’s playing you and you’re falling for all her tricks because your love for her clouds your judgment. I really like you”, she responded I like hanging out with you too. There are plenty of fish in the ocean. Anyway, here is what you do. But later start to be unsure, cold/hot, manipulative. I feel much better about myself. #5 And then she wants to be closer. What you need to do if a girl is leading you on? [Read: 15 reasons why nice guys finish last all the time!]. Let the games begin… I’ll be standing with my feet on solid ground not sinking sand when all is said and done… I heard another guy in here say man up. Get your revenge or payback but do it right. This woman is to put it blunt super sexy but a real head case. It’s a secret relationship and she wants to keep it that way. 16 attention whore signs to watch out for! How to avoid the friend zone and make a girl desire you, The real reason behind why girls are so fickle about guys, 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet. [Read: 12 easy signs to know just how much a girl likes you]. Oh f*ck….This really describes my current situation right now… She was just an operator that wanted an easy ride. She may tell you that she loves you and needs you, and yet, she doesn’t behave like your girlfriend. It was her being a terrible lover. Up till 2 weeks ago we would hand out and mess around alot. All rights reserved. She may even get naughty over the phone or have phone sex with you. Eventually, you don’t care whether she’s another guy’s girlfriend, you just want her attention and her love. Once you’re stuck in the clutches of a girl who leads you on, you have no choice. If you hold on to the relationship any longer, it may just be too darn late and too darn hard. When you give her the space because she’s being distant, she immediately changes her behavior and starts craving for your attention when you back away. Don't worry though - if you're mixed up with a crazy, getting led on might be the best thing that could happen all things considered. Swim in a rough surf at your own risk. She would even try to win your heart back and woo you with loving or seductive words when you start falling for another girl. Lucky for me, I never assume I have a chance. A gluten for punishment I am. She seemed then to play the both of us about the business. They aren't on solid ground so they keep you close, but not too close. Pick a fight and say something that’ll hurt her ego, which would bring out her inner monster and make her hate you. I remember when I was 18, for a year I was madly in love with a girl 5 years older. Well with some it helps with others it will make them feel worse afterwards. I can see now – she is dangerous and there is probably a reason the others before me have left her. Do you wonder why a few girls behave this way? Why I’m drawn to her is beyond me. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. She tells you she needs you, and that she’s very close to you, and she doesn’t know what she’d do without you in her life. That lasted for a few weeks and he must have seen the signs quickly. Had one of these that I fell to hard to fast for and all she was doing was playing me. She flirts with you, goes out on dates with you, but doesn’t give the relationship a name. Why stay with her for business after the break up. we became really good friends. I fell in love with such a girl and now I am broken like hell. It explains her to the dot it’s actually quit impressive. In when the times are good and not to interested in put in much effort. I also know it’s gonna help me a lot. Have you ever wondered why some people appear to like you and then vanish into thin air when things seem to be going pretty well? This has been happening to me for the past 8 months. She even wanted to leave her job and follow me to the company I worked at. But she’s always warm and flirty over the phone, or while texting each other.